Saturday, August 15, 2009

My New Home

Last month, I moved in with my 2 best friends from optometry school. Things have been really nice and I wish that I could have moved in sooner. I would have if it weren’t for my lease. Negotiating for a shorter lease may be more important than bargaining for lower rent. Anyway, my new place is a great deal more spacious than my former residence and Matt and Corey have been the coolest roommates. They are certainly the best roommates that I’ve ever had. If I believed in an almighty god, I would say that they are godsends. I feel blessed for having them as friends.

When I was moving, Corey diligently helped me moved. He helped me lift and load my plethora of boxes to the UHaul truck. He even drove the truck. What would I have done without him? He made my move a smooth one. For that I am profusely grateful. Corey is certainly a special young man. He’s so thoughtful and altruistic. I’m regretful that I had my phone off when Corey and Matt were moving last December. I was unable to help them move since I wasn’t able to pick up. They called me repeatedly that day.

Matt said that he wouldn’t help me move because of that. I’m sure that Matt would have helped me move had he not been working. He did help me carry some boxes up to my room.

My new home is a 3-bedroom duplex on a small street a few blocks from the university. It’s quite new and all the houses on the street look identical except for minor variations in colour. It’s great to live in a house rather than an apartment or guest house. I’m happy that I have the master bedroom. It’s so big, especially since my bed is twin size. It’s also great to have my very own bathroom. I’m also pleased about the amount of light that I get in my room. It’s perfect for my orchids and African violets. I even have a garden in the backyard. I’m growing tomatoes, bell peppers, strawberries, basil, mint, arugula, lettuce, roses, and zinnias.

Living with these guys has been fun. I’ve certainly learned more about them and appreciate them more. I have no complaints. They’re not neat freaks, but they’re not slobs either. They’re moderately clean just like me. It’s been far better than living alone. They’re roommates that I actually socialise with. We do things together like eat meals and shop. We even go bicycling together. I only wish that they knew how to cook.

Monday, May 25, 2009

Matt

I’m writing this because I feel that there were things that I wanted to convey about my good friend Matt that were overlooked in my previous blog about him. It was not meant to criticize or lambast this special young man. You may think that I should be reticent to write another blog about Matt after some crazy bitch from his harem wrote a negative comment in response to my post, but no I am not. I don’t intimidate easily.

I spent 2 days hiking with Matt. We went hiking at Tualatin Valley Nature Park and Multnomah Falls. This was pleasing to me as most of the time that we hang out, we do what Matt and Corey want to do. The hikes were very pleasant and I enjoyed learning more about my amazing friend. What’s most amazing about Matt is his brilliant mind. He seems to have a photographic memory and superior test-taking ability. He learns at an alarming rate. In addition, his ability to reason is astounding. I wouldn’t call him an avid reader, but he certainly has a thorough understanding of many things.

Classmates frequently ask him for further clarification or asistance. I truly believe that Matt could have easily become anything he wanted to be. He could have been a neurosurgeon, rocket scientist, concert pianist, or even composer. His mind is that incredible. Matt is one of the most brilliant people that I have ever met. I only wish that he would spend more time on activities that involve self-improvement and philanthropy rather than “beer, sports, and bitches.”

Even though he is not a fine gentleman, I would certainly invite him to my formal wedding reception if I were to get married. I am not ashamed of him. To the contrary, I am proud that I can call him my one of my best friends as he has so much greatness. Deep down, he is a good and decent person. Matt is a diamond in the rough. I hope that someday the roughness would be stripped away and the gem inside of him will be revealed to everyone.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Dental Visit

Yesterday, I went to see the dentist for the 1st time in about a year. I had been putting off my much needed dental visit due to school. I was so afraid that the dentist would give me such bad news as “You have all these cavities” or “This is going to cost this much money.” I was really worried since I don’t have dental insurance. Years and years ago, every dental visit resulted in the discovery of new cavities and even root canals. I could have procrastinated going to the dentist further, but that would not have been wise. I wanted to see a dentist STAT. I figured that it’s better to have a cavity filled than a root canal, or worse an extraction.

My dental visit went well. The dental hygienist thoroughly cleaned my teeth. I haven’t been drinking much tea or coffee, but she mentioned stains on my teeth. We concluded that it must have been red wine. She was quite affable and we chatted a bit. The dentist was pleasant also. He introduced himself to me simply by his 1st name which I thought was peculiar. I was pleased to hear that I do not have any gum disease or cavities.
I was thrilled that my frequent brushing, flossing, and use of mouthwash paid off. I regularly brush after every meal and floss daily. I would then rinse it off with mouthwash. I even avoided drinking soda and fruit juices. Unfortunately, one of my previous cavities had cracked and need to be replaced. It was due to no fault of mine. Actually, had I taken better care of my teeth years ago, that filling would not be there. Live and learn.

What I learned from the dental visit was that the majority of fillings were amalgam, an alloy of mercury, zinc, and lead, rather than silver. I had no idea. I also learned that it is best for me to use a soft bristled toothbrush. It’s easier on the gums. I have been using a medium bristled brush all along.

Many people are fearful of going to see a dentist. As Franklin D. Roosevelt said, “There is nothing to fear but fear itself.” I certainly agree. Living in fear is one of the worst things in life. Although there are things to be fearful of, a dental visit should not be one of them. The dentist is your friend (so to speak). If you have procrastinated going to see the dentist, do so no longer. Nip any dental caries in the bud before they become problematic. Root canals and extractions are not fun or cheap.

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Cristin

I spent last Saturday hiking with Cristin at Cape Lookout and Kiawanda Beach. The hike was fun and scenic and Cristin was certainly delightful company. We had much to talk about along the trail and in the car.

She is certainly one of the kindest, most decent, most gracious, and most altruistic people that I have ever met. She is wise beyond her years and has left an indelible impression on me. What impresses me most about this young lady is her altruism and wholesomeness. She has tremendous strength of character and virtue. Those are characteristics that all fine doctors have. What’s most wonderful is that she is that way on her own and not out of any religious obligation. It’s very pleasing that there is someone as wonderful as she in a class of competitors, devout church-goers, and hedonists.

I met Cristin over a year and a 1/2 ago when we were interviewing for optometry school at Pacific and Berkeley. I got the impression that she was very nice and intelligent. In retrospect, I’m glad that she decided to go to Pacific instead of Berkeley. She’s one of my dearest friends here and we’ve had so many fun times together. I’m delighted that she will be in town this summer.

I am very fond of Mark, her husband, as well. He is just as fun, reasonable, and wholesome as she. They fuel my belief that one need not be religious to be decent. If more people were like them, the world would be a much better place. Despite their youth, they have one of the best marriages that I have seen. They are a great match. I am proud to have such fine and wholesome friends.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

My thoughts on love

I’m going to be more revealing than ever by writing about something that I have never ever written about—my love life. In short, the best word to describe it at this point in time is nonexistent. Despite this fact, I will still manage to write about my romantic feelings. I’m not in pursuit of romance or a fling at this moment in time. I have optometry school to keep me occupied. However, should the right person come along, I will definitely not let her pass me by. A great lady is hard to come by.

You may ask what do I seek in a girl. People tend to believe that I am so superficial, but I will dispute that. Sure, I may be a little vain and find certain things physically attractive in women, but I am just as much, if not more interested in a person’s strength of character and values than her outward appearance. Many people have no idea that I am a Romantic. Cyrano de Bergerac is one of my favourite books. Physical beauty and dress are what initially attract me to a woman, but it’s how she is as a person that keeps me interested.

The women that I would be most interested in are intelligent, charming, and classy ladies. A lady is a woman who is refined, cultured, and virtuous. A lady would comfortably conduct herself at formal ceremonies. She would do and say all the dearest things and be full of grace and charm. Cindy McCain is a fine example of a lady. I find an intelligent, classy, and strong young lady to be sexier than an attractive woman that sleeps around. Promiscuity and STDs completely turn me off.

For a relationship, I am interested in romance rather than flings. I’m at an age where I do not want to waste my time or money on a relationship that does not have a promising future. By promising, I do not mean easy sex. I am interested in a long-term partner rather than a sex buddy. I do not believe it’s morally fitting to have casual encounters. First and foremost, I’m interested in someone who has similar values as I. After that, I am interested in someone who is intelligent, charming, lovely, and gracious. I am interested in a young lady who is accomplished and interested in having a family. The woman that I will marry will be a fine mother and have a place in the world. She would know how to treat others and support her loved ones. She would be strong, yet feminine.

At the rate that I’m going, my younger brothers are beating me to the altar, but that is of no concern to me. I would rather be single for life than to be in a bad marriage.

Friday, April 17, 2009

My thoughts on life

Lately, I have been thinking so much about this. This will be a serious blog. This entry is about what is most important in my life and how I view life in general. It is by no means an attempt to tell you how to live your life. Live as you like.

I will start off by mentioning the 3 things that are most important to me (in no particular order): family (+friends), health, and education. These are things that I cherish and appreciate most in life and could not live without. My life is centered on these 3 values. Everything that I do is in the name of one or more of these things. I will make sacrifices for any of my top 3 values for without them; my life would be painful and dreadful.

Now that what’s most important in my life has been established, I will address the more complicated topic of what the meaning of life is. I do not believe that the purpose of my life is the pursuit of happiness. I do confess that I had once thought so many, many years ago. Of course I want to be happy and laugh every once in a while, but the pursuit of happiness is not a fulfilling enough objective for me. To live life only to please oneself is rather narcissistic and simple. Furthermore, life is not all about fun and games. There are rough, depressing, painful, and tragic events in life as well. Death is a part of life. We will all experience such things in life and must deal with them accordingly.

I also do not think that the purpose of my life is to reproduce. That may be true for animals in the wild, but it does not and should not apply to civilization. Just imagine how overpopulated this world would be if that were the case. Where would people live and what would they eat? It bothers me that there are pious people out there that are adamantly against things such as abortion and stem cell research because they value life so much. I wonder why they value the lives of embryos and fetuses more so than the lives of young soldiers or impoverished people in developing nations. If they’re so concerned about life, why don’t they do something to help the people whose lives are being threatened? I certainly want to be a father someday, but the bottom line is there is more to life than just making babies.

The purpose of my life is not the pursuit of happiness or procreation. The purpose of my life is to help others and to make a difference. I firmly believe this. This certainly coincides with my top 3 values. My family and friends mean a great deal to me and I will certainly do my utmost to aid and support them whenever necessary. I value my own health as well as the health of others. I do make an effort to eat good food and exercise to stay healthy and avoid things that are damaging to my health such as smoking, alcohol abuse, and extreme sports. I want to be a doctor because I want to be in a guardian of people’s health. Last, but no least, education is what separates humans from animals. With education, people will behave in a more civilized and rational manner. People will act based on reason rather than instincts or hormonal drive and the world would be a better place. With education, we can solve many of the problems facing the world. As a doctor, education is a continuing process. Being a doctor entails a lifetime of learning. Ignorance certainly is not bliss.

I know that if these 3 things are in good-standing, I will be content. Hence, I do not live my life in the pursuit of happiness or procreation. I will maintain and build upon those values, and in the process, I will be happy.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Best Buds


Optometry school has been more than what I had expected. In some ways that's good, while in other ways it isn't. I am glad to be enrolled in optometry school and I do enjoy what I'm learning in most of my classes. I certainly don't enjoy all of them, and do not see the relevance of a few of them. I wish that there were fewer classes though. The course load is a bit much. Despite that, I do think that attending optometry school is one of the best things that has happened to me.

Anyway, my intention today is not to write about school. I wanted to write about my best buds in school. I didn't think that I would have any close friends prior to beginning the program due to my advanced age. Most of my classmates are fresh out of college. There are some that are older than that, but they have families. I didn't think that I would have anything in common with anybody. My 2 best buds in school are Matt and Corey. They are a couple of fun, smart, and wild boys. I knew that we would be close since our trip together to Rockaway Beach last September. The morning after drinking and socialising at the beach, we got dressed and all 3 of us had on red T-shirts. I predicted then that we would have some special bond and I was right. They are quite different from me, especially Matt, but I see a little bit of myself in both of them when I was 23. They are like little brothers to me.

Matt is a rough and tough Wyoming boy. He has said that we are polar opposites, but I don't think so despite our numerous differences. I remember his introduction during the 1st week of classes. He said that he liked football and drinking beer. The entire class bursted out in laughter. I remember adding him as a Facebook friend last summer. He was in groups like "Hillary, make me a sandwich" or "Stop Hillary Clinton." I never thought that I would be close friends with a guy like that. Now, after watching my 2nd ever Superbowl and many alcoholic beverages later, I must say that I was wrong. Matt is a bit of a paradox. He doesn't seem to study much, yet he aces every class. He is a bit crude, macho, egocentric, and sexist, but the girls seem to like that. Despite his faults, Matt is a good guy and I'm proud to have him as a buddy. He's a bit of a bad boy, but I've seen worse. I do question his ethics though. I've seen his vulnerable and sensitive side before, and I feel touched. He is fun, clever, and highly gifted. If I had his mind, I would be in med school.

Corey is different from Matt, though not as different as Matt and I. Where Matt is crude, Corey is smooth and gentlemanly. Where Matt is macho, Corey is sensitive. Where Matt is egocentric, Corey is thoughtful and altruistic. Corey is also a very gifted, fun, and clever young man. In many ways, he seems more like a boy than a man. He always makes silly, goofy expressions when his picture is being taken. He likes to do things like play paintball and video games. He loves little kids and is very mischievous, fun-loving, and youthful. However, he certainly has a sense of maturity and responsibility that's impressionable for someone of his age. I really admire Corey's altruism and thoughtfulness. He can act tough, crude, and macho like Matt, but I know it's all an act.

To conclude, I could not have asked for more memorable and great friends as Matt and Corey. We aren't so different despite our age difference and different home states. For instance, we all are nonreligious and come from working class households. I care about these boys as if they were my little brothers. I look forward to seeing them develop into sophisticated gentlemen one of these days. It will certainly take a while longer for Matt. They both have tremendous potential and will certainly become dependable doctors.

Sunday, October 26, 2008

Why I voted for McCain

Last month, I mailed in my ballot for John McCain. You may wonder why I, someone who believes in things such as universal health care, stem cell research, gun control, and equal rights for all would vote for a Republican. This election is bigger than all of the issues and political parties combined. This country is facing an economic depression and conflicts abroad. It's about doing what's necessary to save America. It should not be about party affiliation. I've compiled my reasons for supporting the best Republican presidential candidate that we've had in a long, long time below.

Experience
McCain has 22 years of experience in the Senate for Arizona. Experience is of integral importance during these times of crisis (unemployment, foreclosures, stock market instability, 2 wars against terrorism, security). McCain is a tough man who has fought and will fight for America and Americans. If he can resist the Viet Cong in HaNoi for 6 years, he can certainly fight the corruption and mismanagement in corporate America and the government. He will certainly stand up to the special interests groups.
Contrast that with Obama's lack of experience. Obama hasn't even finished a Senate term and he's running for president. He's the least experienced presidential candidate ever. Being able to deliver a speech or raise hundreds of millions of dollars does not qualify Obama to be president. Yes, Sarah Palin may not be so experienced, but I'd rather have an inexperienced vice-president than an inexperienced president. The Oval Office is not the place for on-the-job training.

Bipartisanship
McCain has a history of working with members of Congress from both parties. Obama certainly has not. This isn't about Republican vs. Democrat. It's much bigger than that. We need someone who can work with and stand up to both parties. We need a maverick in the White House. Obama thinks that he can move into the White House with his lack of experience and fix all of America's problems with "hope." We need action and not speeches or promises.

Civil service
McCain is the candidate with a history of serving this country and the American people. McCain has served his country as a naval aviator as well as a member of Congress throughout his adult life. How has Obama served his country? How has Obama served Illinois? We need someone who will put country first rather than himself first. That's the major problem in our political system.

Economy
McCain has the right economic relief plan for working Americans as well as corporations. He will not raise taxes on those who can not afford to pay them. He has the expertise to properly manage our economy and create new jobs for Americans by drilling for oil and finding alternative energy. This will reduce our dependence on foreign oil and create jobs for America. We need oil and nuclear energy rather than pressure guages for our tires. Raising taxes on citizens and corporations at this time will not solve the economic crisis. Increasing capital gains tax doesn't encourage people to invest. A McCain administration will cut down on wasteful spending. We need someone in charge who will ensure that our tax dollars are spent wisely. We need someone with a plan to grow the economy rather than redistribute the wealth.

Leadership
We need a leader who has the strength and expertise to lead us through these rough economic and social times. McCain has been a leader in the U.S. Navy as well as the Senate. He has stood up to members of both parties. What leadership experience does Obama have?

War
Everyone knows that aside from our economic problems, there are two wars that we are involved in. We need a commander-in-chief who has the expertise to make tough decisions. As much as I disagree with Bush's pre-emptive war in Iraq, I know that the troops need to be properly funded and they should return home when the mission is complete. An immediate withdrawal of troops and slashing of funding will only endanger our troops and Iraqi civilians even further and ultimately be more costly. Furthermore, an immediate withdrawal will only require a return to the region in the immediate future.

Character
McCain is an honest and honorable man. During times of crisis, people often forget about the importance of values. Values and strength of character are even more important during tough times. We can count on McCain to do what is right rather than what is popular.
Obama certainly has not been completely truthful about his ties with Ayers and his pastor. How can anyone trust someone who has been friends with a terrorist? How can anyone trust a guy who has delivered racially offensive sermons over the span of 20 years? As Hillary stated, one can not choose his family, but he can certainly choose his friends and religious leaders. Obama disassociated with his pastor and church only after the footage was repeatedly aired on national television. His church ties made him less popular with the American people so he abandoned his church and pastor.

After 8 years of a Bush administration, America deserves a president who is truthful and competent. Aside from all of the issues and problems, ask yourself, "Who do you want representing the U.S.A.?" "Who do you trust to handle foreign policy and diplomatic relations?"

Monday, August 11, 2008

Swim Briefs

For the first time in oh such a long time, I went swimming in my swim briefs. No, they're not "Speedos." I bought them in Italy or Malta and they were not made by Speedo. Just think about this before you call swim briefs "Speedos." Similarly, not all jeans are Levi's. There are many companies besides Speedo that make swim briefs. Nike, Tyr, and Adidas are some examples. Furthermore, Speedo doesn't just produce swim briefs. They make swimwear and goggles for men, women, and children. Now that that is settled, I will continue by saying that it is okay for men to wear swim briefs out in public--provided that they have the body to do so.

I was a swimmer for my high school swim team and every boy on the team wore Speedo swim briefs. They were worn to enhance performance in the pool and not for fashion or exhibitionism. As a child and adolescent, I was very, very thin and quite modest of my body. It was next to impossible for me to gain weight. I wore the Speedos, but covered up with a towel whenever I could. For that reason, I haven't worn swim briefs since high school swim until this morning.

So what changed? I was really thin up until a couple of years ago. I had fewer classes and started driving to school instead of taking the bus. My mother spoiled me by overfeeding me. She cooked LARGE portions and I didn't want all that delicious food to go to waste. Anyway, I started to gain weight, but in all the wrong areas. My abdomen suffered the most. I gained 4 inches around my waist. My face also became rounder. Unfortunately, my arms and legs were still skinny. All that excess fat was stored in all the wrong areas. I had gained 20 lbs.

I was really upset with myself and my mother. I was upset with myself for being a pig, and upset with my mother for feeding me like one. I started to reduce my food intake and began to run, ride my bike, and walk. All that hard work and determination paid off. I lost 3" from my waist and dropped 15 lbs. I'm still determined to lose that excess inch off my waist. I even started to swim again. Swimming is definitely my favourite form of exercise. I find running and weight-lifting tedious and unrewarding, but swimming and bicycling are fun to me.

I had been wearing my tight, square-cut swim shorts. They are not as revealing as swim briefs are, but they are just as comfortable and serve their purpose in the pool. I rinse them and hang them out to dry after every use. Last Saturday, I could not wear them because had I left them hanging overnight, unaware that it would rain that night. I wore my swim trunks to the pool. It was difficult to swim in them and flip turns were uncomfortable. Imagine doing sit-ups with boxers on. Fortunately, I found my swim briefs the next day.

I checked in the mirror to decide if I would look decent in them. The flab was gone from my abdomen and I did not see any love handles. My pectoralis muscles were bigger and definition had returned to my abdomen. I was also feeling less self-conscious about my body since I had been bicycling in my biker shorts. I put on my swim briefs, swam efficiently and comfortably, and was no longer ashamed of my body. In fact, being able to look decent and feel comfortable in my swim briefs made me proud. As long as my family and friends aren't around, I am comfortable wearing swim briefs.

For those who are completely against men wearing swim briefs, I question your antipathy and simplicity. Chances are, if you see a man and he's wearing swim briefs, he isn't doing it for fashion or attention. He's wearing it to swim better. In Europe, men often wear swim briefs and women go topless. It's no big deal. Americans can be so conservative and uptight about sex and the human body. I say, if you're in good shape and comfortable with your body, go for it! Never mind what others have to say.

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Monday, August 04, 2008

Oregon


I have been living in Oregon for about a month now and loving it. I'm living in a rural town 25 miles west of Portland. I must say that I am happy here. It's a beautiful state with friendly people and a lower cost of living. I do enjoy what Oregon has to offer. I haven't been here long, but I can see myself becoming an Oregonian.

I drove up here from Los Angeles in late June. I was glad to leave that crowded apartment and overpopulated city behind. My road trip took 3.5 days. I stopped at Napa, Crater Lake, and Silver Falls. Napa was okay. Wine tasting there was expensive, and I wasn't pleased with the wine there. The Cabernet Sauvignon wasn't to my liking. I have an affinity for French and Italian wine. If that makes me a snob, then I'm a snob.

My next stop was Crater Lake. It was a long drive to get to the lake, but well worth the trip. The view was spectacular. The water appeared as brilliant blue as the sea at the French Rivera. There was still plenty of snow remaining, and the trees were lush and green. The ambiance was beautiful and serene. Crater Lake is the most beautiful lake that I've ever seen.

I wanted to see Silver Falls especially upon learning that one can walk behind some of the waterfalls. The roads to Silver Falls were long and winding, but again, it was worth it. I hiked through the park and saw most of the waterfalls. It was a fun and good exercise. I took pictures and picked salmonberries along the trail. The only problem was that some parts of the trail were muddy.

Portland is the largest city in Oregon. It's the only big city in the U.S. that I can see myself living in. The public transportation system is excellent. The city is also very accommodating to bicyclists. I will surely bring my bike the next time that I'm there. Parking is rather expensive in Portland. I've been to the International Rose Test Garden, the Japanese Garden, Crystal Springs, Rhododendron Garden, the Audubon Nature Park, the Saturday Market, and Powell's bookstore. I enjoyed all those attractions except for the Saturday Market. That didn't impressive me much. Perhaps because I have seen bigger markets elsewhere.

My latest stop was Cannon Beach and Seaside. The Oregon coast sure is picturesque. I was there in the morning until dusk. I walked along the beach, took pictures, went to the aquarium in Seaside, flew my kite, and had delicious seafood. It was a long and fun day.

I hear that summer is the best season here. I suppose that all that rain isn't so fun. Oh well. I'll be studying most of the time anyway. School starts in 3 weeks. Until then, I will explore Portland and perhaps go to Mt. Hood.

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Why Everyone needs Health Care

Prior to last week, I thought that I was a healthy young man who could live without health insurance for the time being. I was wrong. I have not been as sick as I was last week since the winter of 2003 when the ship that I was aboard was underway in the eastern Mediterranean Sea. My illness on the USS La Salle was directly due to seasickness. The rough waters tossed that old ship around and I was feeling nauseous and vomitting for days. I had always felt nauseous during deployments, but that was the worst deployment ever for me. To this day, a cruise will never be my idea of a dream vacation. I will avoid that like the plague.

My illness last week initially seemed trivial. On Monday, I started developing a sore throat. The next day, I purchased Ricola cough drops and began taking them. The last sore throat that I had was a month ago. I treated it with those cough drops and it was gone in a couple of days. However, this time that did not happen. I had taken those cough drops for three days and my condition worsened. I throat had become very dry. I noticed swelling in the back of my mouth and began sensing an acute pain in my upper neck. It was really painful for me to speak, eat, or drink. Opening my mouth brought me to tears. I was rudely awakened by the excrutiating pain in my throat for the second straight night. In addition to my sore throat, I was experiencing congestion in my nasal cavity and fever. By then I was on Sudafed, Aspirin, and Lozenges, but there was no improvement. I forced myself to slurp watered-down hot cereal, yogurt, and soup for sustenance. My condition seemed to worsen by the hour.

I noticed that there was more swelling and redness in the back of my mouth. Any activity that involved opening my mouth or swallowing was an excrutiating ordeal. I finally decided on Wednesday that it was all that I could bear and that I did not have the expertise or training to treat myself. I searched the Internet for local medical clinics. I called them up and struggled to request an appointment. Most of the clinics that I called told me that their doctors were seeing new patients. One of them even told me to try back in two months. The receptionist at the community hospital transferred me to voice mail. It was almost 5:00 in the afternoon when I reached a private clinic 15 miles away that was seeing patients on walk-in basis and was open until 8:00. I felt as if I had hit the jackpot as I rushed over there.

I was so excited about being able to see an M.D. who would explain my condition and prescribe something to make all this pain go away. When I arrived, the receptionist had me fill out paperwork and pay $120 up front since I didn't have health insurance. A few minutes later, the medical assistant weighed me and took my blood pressure and temperature. I struggled in answering questions about my condition as speaking involved opening my mouth and subjecting myself to further pain. When the doctor arrived, she asked me more questions then proceeded to observe my breathing with her stethoscope and looked in my mouth. She took a swap sample of the back of my throat to test it for streptococcus, bacteria that cause strep throat. She said that she would have the result in five minutes.

When she returned, she told me that it was not strep throat that I had. I felt a bit better until she said that my throat did not look "impressive" to her, meaning that it was only minor. I felt stupid for making a big fuss over my pain. I struggled to utter that the back of my mouth was swelling and that this had gone on for three days, but she wasn't moved. I asked her why there was swelling. She nonchalantly answered that it was only my lymph nodes. I wanted to shout at her or at least question her some more, but my throat was aching so badly, and speaking was so hard for me. I asked if there was anything that she could prescribe. She said that I was right in taking the over-the-counter medication and even suggested that I could take twice the recommended dosage on the label. She also said that Advil could also be taken for my pain. I was a bit relieved that the M.D. didn't think much of my throat condition. It didn't seem right to me due to my immense pain and suffering, but she was the one with the M.D. I was disappointed that she didn't write me a precription, adequately answer my questions, or seem to empathize.

I started taking twice the dosage as she suggested for the next couple of days. Doubling the dosage seemed to only worsen my fever. There was no improvement whatsoever. The swelling was bigger than ever and my throat was dry like a desert. I started coughing as soon as I tried to drink water. Any movement in my mouth was more painful than ever. I could only sleep for a couple hours at a time throughout the day. On Friday night, I could not fall asleep due to the immense pain. I drove myself to the emergency room at the community hospital. I should have done that instead of seeing that quack the other day. I was reticent to go to the ER because I didn't think that my condition was exigent. I decided to go anyway because I did not see any other way to stop the pain and suffering. The swelling in my throat was obstructing the opening of my esophagus. Furthermore, my left ear was now especially sensitive to the slightest sounds. I had spent a small fortune on over-the-counter medication and an incompetent doctor and my condition never improved. It only worsened.

It was a good thing that I had gone to the ER that night. The doctor and nurse were proficient, empathetic, and helpful. By then, talking was most excrutiating. My speech was impaired. I communicated with the nurse mainly by nodding, gesturing, and writing. The doctor performed all of the tasks that the other doctor performed, only he did it with more care. He answered my questions thoroughly and explained things to me. When he told me that the swab test for streptococcus was negative, he added that a fast test for strep throat may often be a false negative and that he will request a culture test for me. He told me that what I had was most likely a viral infection due to the swelling of my tonsils and pain in my ear. He prescribed Penicillin should the culture test positive. He also prescribed Hydrocodone for the pain, and Dexamethasone for the swelling. The nurse started me on the medication. That night, I was able to sleep through dawn.

I woke up feeling significantly better. The pain had diminished. After brushing my teeth, I suddenly began coughing. I was coughing up blood. I was perturbed and rushed to the ER. There was now a different doctor and nurse on duty. The doctor explained that the blood was from the lysis of my cyst. He doubled the dosage for my prescription of Penicillin and sent me on my way. I've been on the medication for less than 24 hours and already feeling so much better. The swelling is almost entirely gone and my throat is not as dry and sore as before. Swallowing and talking are not nearly as painful as before. I still feel a bit of pain in my throat from the dryness, but that's about it.

I have not received my bills from the ER visits. I am sure that I will pay a handsome fortune, but such is the case when one does not have health insurance in this country. I am fortunate that I have a credit card that charges a low rate of interest. I have great pity for those who need to pay their medical bills for surgery or hospitalization with credit cards that charge high rates of interest.

One would think that a country that has the best hospitals, staffed with the best doctors in the world, would have a better health care system for its people--a system that makes it possible for those seeking medical care to have access at the onset of their illness rather than that the peak of their illness. It's irrational that a country that is spending billions and billions of dollars policing a civil war in the Middle East in order to "spread freedom and democracy" does not have a system in place to provide for the well-being of its own. That is why there are over 47 million Americans without health insurance.

That is why I believe in universal health care. Health is one of the most important things in life. Mandating health care would be an improvement to the welfare of Americans and thus beneficial to the government. Without health insurance, a person would not have access to cheaper preventative care or medical attention from the onset of an illness. He would need to wait until his condition is critical and get costly emergency care. His medical bills would either be paid for by credit card or by those with health insurance in the form of higher premiums. This is wrong for the patient and wrong for the insured.

Uninsured patients are a burden to the health care system the same way that uninsured motorists are to everyone on the roads or unvaccinated children on the playground. They raise the cost for everybody. If health insurance were mandated, the cost of health care would be spread out and lowered. Everyone would be responsible for his own health costs. There would be more preventative care and routine medical visits and fewer emergency visits. I don't have an M.D., but I know that it would be more effective and economical to treat an infection from the onset than to do so at the height of an infection. Furthermore, treating an infection early on will limit the spread of infection onto the rest of the population. I believe that everybody wins with universal health care--everybody except for credit card companies and HMOs.

Some might say that mandating health insurance unfairly taxes people who can not afford health insurance. My ordeal last week has proven to me that everyone needs health care. Everyone will find himself in need of medical attention at some point in his life. If the federal government mandates Social Security and the state government mandates auto insurance, why would it be unfair to require that everyone have health insurance? Not everyone will live long enough to receive Social Security benefits, but everyone will be ill at some point in his life. Viral or bacterial infections could happen to anyone and at anytime. Why not have a system in place that will reduce the cost of treatment and limit the spread of the infection? When people are healthy, they are less likely to call in-sick. Moreover, a worker in good health would be more productive than an ailing worker. Having more people working productively is of great benefit to employees, employers, and the government. For the government, a more productive work force would yield higher tax revenues.

Others may think that universal health care means uniform health care. They think that government involvement in health care would result in inferior service. Nothing could be further from the truth. Is academics at a public university inferior to academics at a private university? In my opinion, when people who are in need are not able to get the services that they need until it's too late, when hospitals are dumping patients on Skid Row, or when health care administrators and HMOs make medical decisions and deny treatment recommended by doctors; there is something wrong with the system. It is problematic when one needs to go to the ER to receive adequate medical attention. It is the government's duty to step in and do something to rectify injustice and inefficiencies. If the government were to leave the funding of childhood vaccines entirely up to parents, poor children would not get vaccinated and disease would be widespread and the population is left worse off. If there were no public schools, children from poor families would not be able to afford an education and more likely turn to crime.

Universal health care would enable patients to make their own medical decisions based on the advisement of their doctors. To work properly, a universal health care plan must provide several options for the population. At the very least, everyone should have minimal health care coverage. Nobody is safe from infections or accidents. Those wanting or requiring more medical services would pay higher premiums. People may choose to buy the government offered health insurance or a private health insurance. With universal health care, we could build a stronger defense against infectious diseases and the country would be better off. Universal health care is an investment with extensive and immeasurable benefits.

I have learned many things from this ordeal. Many of the things that happened to me last week affirmed my convictions that health is one of the most important things in life, health care reform is needed in America, and that I am truly committed to becoming a health care professional. I have also learned that questioning authority may be necessary and that no one knows your body as well as you do. A wise woman once stated "Pain is the warning that something's wrong." I could not agree more.

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Sunday, June 08, 2008

McCain '08

Now that Hillary is out of the running for the presidency, who will I vote for? This is an easy choice for me. Despite Hillary's endorsement of her former rival, I will vote for John McCain. Even if Hillary were Obama's running mate, I would vote for McCain in a heartbeat. Although I am a registered Democrat, I have resolved to vote for McCain over Obama. Any one of the Democratic contenders for the nomination, would have been a far better choice than Obama. Besides Hillary, I especially liked Joe Biden. Unfortunately, idiotic Democrats bought into all the media hype surrounding that ugly, big-eared fool and turned the primary elections into a popularity competition.

Obama will never get a free pass from me. I have never been impressed with Obama. What is there to be impressed about? Okay, he has raised more money than any other presidential campaign ever. Just because a movie is most popular at the box office does not mean that it's a quality movie. Similarly, just because Obama has rampant support and great pools of funds does not mean that he is the most qualified candidate for the toughest job in the world.

I have never perceived him as "eloquent" or "brilliant" as the liberal media often say he is. I see him as pompous, egocentric, self-serving, inexperienced, dishonest, problematic, unqualified, and undeserving of the presidency. Sure, he can be a good speaker, but where's the substance? Where's the experience? Where's the foreign policy expertise? Where are the plans? Being president requires more than just rhetoric and hope. Of course he could have a vice-president and cabinet that have the experience, knowledge, and qualifications that he obvious lacks, but that's absurd! We must demand more from our leaders. We must hold them to higher standards. A leader should be a leader because he is most qualified for the job; not because he is most popular or good at public speaking. Especially when he plagiarises speeches.

Obama is a self-serving and inexperienced politician who will do or say anything just to be popular. Over 20 years ago, he converted to Christianity not for spiritual enlightenment, but for his political ambitions. He joined the most popular black church in Chicago for networking purposes. He has followed Jeremiah Wright for all these years and denies hearing anything controversial. He dismissed Wright's egregious sermons caught on video as being small aberrations that have been overplayed. A month after calling Wright an "uncle" to him, he disassociated with him. Later, he disassociated with his church after a stupid guest pastor made wrongful comments about Hillary.

To me, Obama is not an honest or honourable man. He's a coward. His attempts to repress the revote in Michigan was a clear example of his cowardice and indecency. He can not be entrusted with the presidency. I may agree with him on issues such as Iraq, health care, and gun control, but I firmly believe that it is more important to have a proven leader and someone who has earned the privilege to be president than someone that I merely agree with. Especially when the person that I agree with does not have any experience to substantiate his claims. The person who is elected must be ready on day one. The presidency is not an internship! There's no on-the-job-training.

There's more to my support of McCain than simple default that Obama is a POOR choice for president. To the contrary, McCain is honest, sincere, trust-worthy, wise, courageous, patriotic, and knowledgeable. He is a strong individual who has fought for his country and has EARNED the privilege of being president. I may not agree with many of his stance on important issues, but I respect and trust him as a leader. I trust that he has the experience and wisdom to do what is best for this country. Obama has repeatedly falsely accused McCain of being just like Bush. I completely disagree. McCain, like myself, is a maverick. He will work with both Democrats and Republicans in the best interest of the nation that he is devoted to.

I really wanted to vote for Hillary, but I will have no regrets about voting for McCain. It's an easy choice. Vote for the experienced candidate. There's too much at stake. Besides, if McCain wins, Hillary could return in 2012.

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Hard Candy is no treat

With the success of her last album, Confessions on a Dancefloor, Madonna has followed up with more dance music. Only this time, she has dropped the electronica, technopop, synthesized grooves, and poignant lyrics that she has become known for and replaced them with cacophonic beats and simple, ludicrous words that carry no significance to pop music or the events of this time.

I was anticipating the release of this album until I found out that it was going to be hip-hop based. I've never cared for the work of Madonna's collaborators from this album (Justin Timberlake, Timbaland, Kanye West, or Pharrell Williams). I listened to the 30-second demos of each song online and only the last song, "Voices," sounded okay for me. The 1st single "4 minutes" does absolutely nothing for me. The music for that song is catchy, but the words are senseless and absurd. After listening to the album in it's entirety, I am still disappointed with it. Madonna can certainly do much better.

Madonna has said that she worked on this album in intervals. Listening to this album leaves me asking "What's the point?" Most likely, the purposes behind this album are Madonna's last stand at being sexy before she turns 50 this summer and self-promotion. Judging from the cover with Madonna in a tight bodysuit and big boxer belt and legs wide open, she is still interested in selling her sexuality. She certainly still has the body and youthful appearance to wear tight clothing and pose seductively, but as a mother of 3, she should ease up on the sexuality. Madonna has tried hip hop/R&B before with her Bedtime Stories album. That attempt was successful and beautiful largely due to the pensive lyrics of "Secret," "Survival," and "Inside of me."

"Candy Shop" opens the album with steady drum beats and a feeble attempt to be sexy. Lyrics like "My sugar is raw" does not sound appropriate for Madonna. Artistically, "Give it 2 me" is easily the best and most enjoyable song on this album. However, it's certainly not impeccable. The tedious and redundant repitition of "Get stupid" could have and should have been omitted. "Miles away" with it's acoustic opening and thoughtful lyrics is noteworthy. "She's not me" would have sounded better without Pharrell's horrible singing. "Spanish lesson" is the dumbest song on this album. A child could probably have written a better song. The acoustic sound was a major relief from all of the horrendous hip hop. "Voices" is the only song that makes the most of Madonna's much improved richer vocals following Evita.

To sum, this album does nothing for Madonna as a singer or musician. It's the WORST album of her career and would be best forgotten. I predict that it will have mass appeal and but it will be soon forgotten among the superfluous array of hip hop out there today. Banal is the word that best describes Hard Candy. Unlike past albums by Madonna, there isn't a single song here that I love. The majority of the songs are vacuous and uninspiring. Much of the album consists of filler songs. The words often sound less pleasing when sung. It's such a shame that it took so long for Madonna to develop such an awful album. Furthermore, it's a chagrin that critics ridiculed American Life and Erotica, but praise Hard Candy. I would recommend passing on Hard Candy. C-

Saturday, March 08, 2008

Lifehouse at the House of Blues

I went to my 1st Lifehouse show on Thursday at the House of Blues in Anaheim. I've never seen a major band in concert before, and it was certainly a good time. Lifehouse truly is my favourite band. Jason Wade's voice was as terrific as usual and so was the music. I did not like waiting 3 hours for them to perform though. They started the show at 10. I got home at 12:30. That would have been okay had it been a Friday or Saturday night, but it was Thursday night and I had to work the next morning. Nevertheless, it was well worth it. The only other disappointment was when Bryce Soderberg sang lead for 2 of the songs--Bridges and The Joke. Bryce's voice is rather thin and his range is limited. He should definitely stick to playing the guitar and singing back-up. The set list was also strong. They opened the show with Disarray. They performed the hits Spin, Hanging by a moment, First time, and Take me away. They also performed Somebody else's song, Quasimodo, Who we are, Storm, Whatever it takes, and From where you are. Unfortunately, they did not perform Blind (my favourite), Come back down, Sick Cycle Carousel, or Breathing. Hopefully they'll peform Blind the next time that I see them.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Heath

After class, I went online to http://www.msn.com/ to check my stocks. I saw the headline "Heath Ledger dead at 28" and could not believe it. It's such a tragedy. He was such a young and talented actor. After seeing him in Brokeback Mountain with Jake Gyllenhaal, I thought that his future would only get better. Instead, his life came to an abrupt end like so many young stars of the past--James Dean, Marilyn Monroe, Natalie Wood, and River Phoenix.

Heath was a gifted and good-looking actor who chose roles to enrich his acting abilities. He was more interested in the art of acting than getting by on his good looks. Like James Dean, he was more than just a handsome actor. He had the talent to have a promising career. Unfortunately, that's not going to happen. An autopsy has yet to be performed, but they say it could have been an overdose of sleeping pills that killed Heath. He was found nude and in bed. He was only 28.

I first saw him in The Patriot with Mel Gibson. Then he was in Monster's Ball. For me, he was most notable in A Knight's Tale and Brokeback Mountain. His portrayal of a gay, reserved cowboy demonstrated his range as an actor. He brilliantly showed us the character's strength and vulnerability. He depicted love, anger, toughness, and sensibility. It was such a chagrin that he didn't win an Oscar for that role. Heath Ledger was one of the best young actors of this era. He leaves behind a 2-year old daughter, Matilda, with actress Michelle Williams.

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Hillary

I just watched the Brian Williams's interview with Sen. Hillary Clinton, and I'm more convinced than ever that she is the one who should be the next president. I firmly believe that she has the intelligence, open-mindedness, experience, diligence, tenacity, and altruism necessary to repair the damage left behind by the current incompetent, wasteful, and foolish Bush administration. Her qualifications SURPASS those of any of her contenders Democrat or Republican. In that interview, Hillary came across as a strong, authoritative, informed, reasonable, and caring person. In other words, she's the antithesis of Bush.

That is what America needs as the next president. Of course we are in dire need of change. However, we need responsible change. We need someone who is has a history of fighting for and delivering change. Experience should be an asset and not a liability. We need a doer and not a talker. We need someone who has a deliberate plan and is ready to assume command on day one. We need someone who will take charge and not rely heavily on the experience and expertise of his staff. We need someone with the resolve, courage, and intellect to champion what is right and listen with an open mind in the White House. We need President Hillary Rodham Clinton!

I would be greatly disappointed in the American people if they don't make Hillary president. She should at least get the nomination. I'm greatly disappointed that Obama has so much support. It suggests to me that Democrats aren't thinking rationally. Moreover, they're not thinking at all! So what if he's "charismatic." So what if he's been forthcoming about his past drug use. So what if he is a good talker. DOES HE HAVE THE KNOWLEDGE, EXPERIENCE, AND LEADERSHIP NECESSARY TO MAKE HIM A GOOD PRESIDENT? HELL NO!!!

If voters would have thought logically and asked themselves that question in 2000 and 2004, Bush would not be president today. The presidency is a powerful and influential office. The presidential election should not be a game or popularity contest. Voting should be based on reputation and qualifications and not likability. We need someone in the White House who can lead and get the job done. If Americans are so interested in charisma and likability, why don't we just set up a monarchy? We could pick an attractive young couple and make them king and queen. For the record, I do not find Obama so charismatic, likable, or trustworthy. I'm skeptical about people who are excessively ambitious and inconsistent. Think people, think!!! This election is for the next world leader and not for homecoming king/queen.

Hillary has the right combination of optism, strength, integrity, reputation, resolve, and reason to make things happen. She has the best solutions for many of today's problems and would be able to assert her authority whenever necessary, but also talk to her opponents and compromise. This ability is of integral importance in these times of disarray.

Without a doubt, the most critical issue is the war in Iraq. It is not making a difference, wasteful, and irrational. It is an enormous onus for the military, American families, and taxpayers. Ending the war in Iraq does not mean ending the war on terrorism. Other issues that concern me are health care, education, stem cell research, immigration, and gay rights. Hillary has elaborate plans to for all of these important matters. That is why I support Hillary Rodham Clinton for president.

Sunday, January 06, 2008

Dan

Today, I was delighted to receive an email from on old friend of mine. We served together on Diego Garcia back in 2001. I haven't heard from him since he left in September of that year. He's such a terrific person. I remember him as a good-natured, athletic, and smart young man of integrity. I regret that I didn't spend more time with him and lost contact after he left. It was good to learn that things have been going really well for him after all these years. He desserves it. He has accomplished muchsince the last time that I saw him. He remained in the Navy for 6 more years and earned his master's in ocean engineering and established himself in D.C. I even learned that he's now engaged.

You may wonder how I was able to find my long lost friend. I knew that he was from Texas so I looked him up on http://www.whitepages.com/. I wasn't sure because there were about a dozen other people with the same name. I was sure after I saw his age. I found an address and sent him a Christmas card. He wrote me 2 weeks later. It was great to hear from him. I hope to hear more from him in the future. I also hope that this inspires you to do the same thing to locate the people that you've lost contact with over the years.

Friday, December 14, 2007

A Tribute to Madonna

Madonna has just been inducted into the Rock n' Roll Hall of Fame. It's about time that a superstar like Madonna, the Queen of Pop music, gets recognized for her contributions to music. This lady has done it all for over 25 years and with insufficient praise--especially in the U.S. Worldwide, she has been the number 1 female music artist. Madonna is an amazing and unique woman. She has sold hundreds of millions of CDs, performed in sold-out concerts, acted in movies, and written children's books.

Unfortunately, Madonna's music is usually overshadowed by controversy and prejudice. People would make judgements even before her music has been released. As a fan of 14 years, I know that Madonna's music is largely positive, uplifting, and avant garde. Her music isn't simply superficial dance or pop. They convey important messages of love, equality, and being true to oneself. She is a strong, intelligent, open-minded woman who puts 100% into whatever she does. Madonna's success however, is not attributable only to her blond ambition and tenacity. The woman has talent!

She was a dancer who learned to write music, sing, and play guitar. She has written dozens of beautiful songs throughout the course of her career. Among them are "La Isla bonita," "Like a prayer," "Oh Father," "Secret," "Frozen," "Ray of light," and "Get together." With every new album, there's a new look, feel, and style. She is the ultimate diva--far ahead of any other. A close 2nd would be Kylie Minogue. Madonna seems to know what the next big thing will be in the music scene and she boldly tries it. Although she tries new things, she never compromises the integrity of her image. She doesn't reinvent herself. Rather, she reveals more and more of herself throughout the years, but she still leaves more to figure out as she's such a complex woman. Congratulations Madonna for being such a remarkably talented woman. I don't care what anybody else says, you are a beautiful and talented woman!

Thursday, December 13, 2007

That don't impress me much

No, I'm not writing about a Shania song. I'm actually going to write about Barrack Obama. I really don't understand this guy or the strong support that he's receiving. Supposedly, his support is just about even with Hillary's in New Hampshire. Obama is an ambitious first-term senator from Illinois who thinks that he can be a great president. Ambition is good, but Obama is just too ambitious and presumptuous. He's charismatic and gifted--I'm not disputing that. He seems to be a great orator and usually says the right things. However, does he have qualities that will make him a great president, a world leader? No, I don't think so.

I see Obama as a talker rather than a doer. He said that he was opposed to sending troops over to Iraq from the beginning. He wasn't even in office at the time! It's so easy for Obama to say that. What has Obama done for Illinois so far in his unfinished term as a senator? He's even won the endorsement of Oprah Winfrey--another great talker. Of course Winfrey is successful, smart, and altruistic, but what does she know about politics? I would take advice from her about talking to people, cocker spaniels, and gaining weight. Definitely not when it comes to politics.

If you were looking to hire a chauffeur to drive you around town, would you hire a 17-year old who got his license the previous year? If you're smart, you wouldn't. Not even if he had a perfect driving record and scored high on his driver's test. You would hire someone who's at least 25 and has a good driving record. Why should we entrust the presidency, the highest office in the land, to a first-term senator who thinks living in a foreign country between 5 and 10 counts as international experience? You must be kidding, right? What would a kid know about foreign policy or international relations?

Obama should step aside and let a seasoned professional get her well-deserved nomination. He should be aiding her rather than challenging her. From Obama, I get all this talk, but not enough action. If he wants to be president, he should focus on his job as a senator and gain experience. Even if he were to get the nomination, I doubt that he would win. From first-hand experience, I know that Americans generally don't like foreign names. Despite being a diverse country, Americans are xenophobic and Obama is a foreign name. It's not a presidential name like Adams, Jefferson, Wilson, or McKinley. I really hope that Hillary not only gets the nomination, but also that she wins the presidency. She has the intellect, experience, leadership, courage, and expertise that America so desperately need in the White House. She's a great person who would bring credibility back to the office of the presidency. Why not support someone who has a done more than talk? As Hillary said, the office of the presidency is no such place for a novice who requires on-the-job training.

Tuesday, December 04, 2007

Best Dressed Women 2007




I firmly believe that I have a sense of fashion, taste, and style. It's just one of those things that people either have or don't have. Of course it can be acquired by paying close attention to detail. I think that it's about time for me to write about the 10 best dressed women of 2007. I've seen other lists from fashion magazines and old men who think that they have a sense of fashion, and I have been largely disappointed with their horrible choices (ex. Cameron Diaz, Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Lopez). Not only are their faces ugly, their clothes are ugly too. I feel that I owe it to the stylish ladies and to the world to announce who I think dress well. I urge you to read, take note, and emulate how these women dress to impress.

The women that I have selected look great on the red carpet and in everyday life. They dress well whether they're promoting movies or running errands. They wear things that flatter their bodies and skin tones. Nicole Kidman, Angelina Jolie, Reese Witherspoon, Anne Hathaway, Naomi Watts, Emmy Rossum, Elizabeth Hurley, Michelle Pfieffer, Gwyneth Paltrow, and Claudia Schiffer are women who have style. They were all so chic this past year. What I like is that their clothes are feminine, classic, modest, and sexy. Yes, it is possible to be modest and sexy at the same time. The things Britney Spears wears are not sexy at all.

All women should try and learn something from these 10 best dressed ladies. The dresses that I especially liked this past year were Angelina's little black dress at the Cannes film festival, Reese's little yellow dress at the Golden Globes, and Naomi's yellow maternity gown at the Academy Awards. Brad and Angelinia looked absolutely fabulous in Cannes last May. He was wearing a Gucci tuxedo and she was wearing a lovely black lace dress to the premiere of A Mighty Heart. Reese wore a golden yellow Nina Ricci dress to the Golden Globes. It was fitting and glossy like satin. I do think that blondes look terrific in yellow. Naomi's dress at the Oscars was an off-the-shoulder creamy yellow gown with a black empress-waist sash. The colour complimented her fair skin and golden locks and the light material flowed off her belly.

I'm disappointed that many of my picks did not make it on anybody else's best dressed list. I will be sure to write another best dressed list next year. I'm sure that there will be women recognized on other lists that I would find to be bad dressers.

Friday, November 30, 2007

A Teddy Bear Named Mohammed

I was disturbed and disappointed when I heard the news that Gillian Gibbons, a Briton who had been teaching in Sudan since last summer, was convicted of blasphemy when she allowed her class to name the class teddy bear "Mohammed." As an atheist, I personally would not be offended if someone were to name a stuffed animal Mohammed, Jesus, Buddha, Zeus, etc. It's only a name. Religion seems archaic and obsolete to me.

I do not know the woman, but I think that she had no intention of offending Sudanese religious zealots. I don't think that she had been in Sudan long enough to understand the controversy behind naming the class teddy bear after the Muslim prophet. Madonna certainly was right on when she sang "Ignorance is not bliss" in her song "In this Life." Furthermore, it was the class that decided upon the name. The teacher allowed it for she did not know. Knowing how mischievous children can be, I wouldn't be surprised if they chose that name just to get their teacher in trouble. Why wasn't that issue mentioned?

Gibbons was sentenced to 15 days in jail and deportation back to the U.K. It could have been worse, but it's still not right. I am grateful to be living in a country where there's a separation between church and state. I say that the only thing that she did wrong was go to Sudan. I enjoy travelling, but there are parts of the world that I would avoid like the plague. I would not want to set foot in primitive, poor countries. Perhaps starvation stupifies people.

Thursday, November 22, 2007

Thanksgiving

Today is Thanksgiving and I've been thinking about all the things that I have to be thankful for. I believe that everybody should have something to be thankful for. At the very least, one can be thankful for being alive. One can be thankful for his life.

Fortunately, I have much more to be thankful for. For starters, I am thankful that I have the bare necessities such as food, shelter, and clothing. I know that there are many people in this world who do not have any of those things. It's tragic that there are people who don't have access to one or more of those basic needs.

Aside from those things, I am thankful that to be home and not risking my life in a foreign country. I am thankful that I'm a civilian and not fired upon. I am thankful to be able to live my life and not dying for what I don't believe in. I'm thankful that I have the opportunity to further my education. I am thankful that I will be able to pursue my goal of becoming an optometrist. Thankful that I have the ability and ambition to do so. I'm thankful that I'm living in a country where I can become the best that I could possibly be. It certainly is a blessing.

I'm also thankful that I have my health, family, and friends. I believe that health, family, and education are among the most important things in life. To those of you who aren't thankful for anything, I suggest that you think again.

Sunday, October 14, 2007

Lifehouse: Who we are

I must take time from my busy schedule to express my feelings about this band. They are the greatest band out there today. This is the band known for songs such as "Hanging by a moment," "You and me," "Come back down," and "Blind." For the past few years, Lifehouse has brought positive, thoughtful, encouraging, provocative, well-crafted, and pleasing music to an era of reality TV stars, government deception, and talentless lyp-synching trashy underachievers. Their latest album has themes of love, struggle, and moving forward. It is pleasing to listen to from beginning to end and repeatedly. I highly recommend this album for those who enjoy acoustic music and Jason Wade's awesome voice.

Jason's voice and lyrics are as noteworthy as ever. "First Time," the first single, is fun, fast, and fabulous. "Whatever it takes" is thoughtful, contrite, and could easily be a hit single. "Make me over" is another one of my favourites from this album. It is upbeat and a classic Lifehouse tune. The piano introduction for "Learn you inside out" is different from the usual acoustic introductions, but beautiful and fitting. It's a song worthy of release as a single and laud. "Storm" is a poignant a capella piece which underscores Jason's outstanding vocal talent. It's a nice finish to a remarkable album.


Saturday, July 21, 2007

A Mighty Heart

If you haven't seen this movie then you are missing out. It's a well-told story and shows Angelina Jolie at her best. Angelina stars as Mariane Pearl, the pregnant wife of journalist Daniel Pearl. Angelina's acting in this movie was superb. Her Cuban-French accent and courageous portrayal were right on. Daniel Pearl (played by Dan Futterman) was abducted and brutally killed in Pakistan. If this movie doesn't get any Oscar nominations, that would be a great injustice to movie-making.

The film was filmed like a documentary on location in India and Pakistan. It's realistic and poignant. It depicts Mariane's collaboration with Pakistani authorities in trying to bring home her beloved husband. Though most people know what happpened to Daniel, the film is successful in captivating the audience by revealing what happened behind the hostage crisis. It's a story of love, hope, and courage. The message of the movie is essential for today's society. DO NOT BE FEARFUL OF TERRORISM AS IT ALLOWS THEM TO WIN. LIVE EACH DAY TO THE FULLEST AND HAVE COMPASSION FOR OTHERS.

Segue

My last post was 5 months ago! I've been quite busy, but the main reason for this time lapse is my inability to access my blog from my home computer due to some technical difficulties. I'm typing from my brother's computer. There's been quite a few things that I've really wanted to write about. For instance, I've seen so many terrific movies. There have also been things that have peeved me. For instance, the imbecile rantings of a dumb bitch named Ann Coulter and the idiotic policies of our vacuous president. To think that there are fools out there that support these morons is disconcerting. Unfortunately, it's a bit too late for certain things. My next blogs will be about a handful of movies that I've enjoyed since my last blog entry. Those movies include "The Devil wears Prada," "A Mighty Heart," and "North Country."